Monday, January 5, 2009

Dating Tips For Both Women & Men

Everyone of all levels of the dating game will have something to learn from the top dating tips, advice and philosophies in order to get themselves a better relationship. The first thing is that good looks do not always lead to good relationships. Have we not seen too much celebrity breakups? They also struggle in love so ultimately it’s not about looks, though it does play a part. There are no perfect tips or magic tricks that can lead to good relationships, but there are many tips to follow that altogether bring forth a better relationship. Remember different things work for different people.


Get prepared and do some due diligence on which types of people you are going to date. The Internet is a great tool to use. Also be mentally prepared for bad ending. A wise man once said “Never underestimate the unimportance of nearly everything”.

Prepare to look good. Buying good clothes and sporting a good hairstyle is not enough. You have to work your body and read magazines that relate to dating, get some health tips, eat well and maybe get some supplements as well. This is a great way to boost confidence and that definitely helps.

Know your game plan. Do you want to just have a happy peaceful courtship or do you actually plan to get married and in how long? You have to first find those answers in yourself, and ultimately let your date know.

Boost your confidence through the above tips and do some reading regarding confidence or some other emotions. Avoid the negatives in life. You should be old enough to know which friends are better left alone. This way you lead a better, more confident life.

Join social clubs and frequent places of social gathering. This lets you meet more people and is definitely better than just random approaching some girls outdoors. Now you have more people to choose from. Be realistic about what sort of person you want to date. Ideally, the personalities should match. If it is not, at least one part is going to be unhappy.

If all is well, take a break sometimes away from dating. If all is not well, all the more you should take a break to cool yourself. Then analyze where you have gone wrong, where you need to improve on keep improving yourself. After all, mature people know that growth is lifelong and does not stop with age.

Enjoy dating as if it is sport. It should not occupy your life. It is simply meeting people and getting along well with them. It is an activity that is good in all ways. You never know that the people you meet will bring you a love life, or a business opportunity or some other great stuff life has to offer.

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